Brittany Heyboer - NLP
The therapy. The mindset coaching. The certifications. She had invested in herself in ways most women never will. She could name her patterns. Trace them back to their roots. She understood herself more deeply than most people ever would.
She walked into the work thinking she knew what needed to shift. She had a theory. She had been living inside it long enough to feel certain.
Not the thing she expected. Something deeper. Something she hadn't fully named, but recognized the moment it surfaced. The thing that had been quietly consuming her capacity all along. The thing that had been sitting just beneath every strategy she'd tried, every goal she'd set, every version of herself she'd attempted to step into.
The most confident she had felt in ten years of business.
This is what happens to the women who have walked into this work with an open heart and a willingness to lean into what comes forward.
BecomeHer is where you experience it.
Consistently booked out.
Raising her prices and holding them from a place of ease.
Leading from somewhere she had never been able to access before.
It might be the weight you carry in your most important relationship that follows you into every workday.
It might be the guilt of showing up for the people you love that makes you shrink your ambition before it even gets started.
It might be the relationship with money and safety that quietly caps what you allow yourself to earn.
It might be the health depletion that means you have nothing left to lead from by noon.
It might be the spiritual disconnection that's made everything you're building feel slightly purposeless.
It might be a dream that's been sitting on your heart, waiting for you to become the woman who finally says yes.
"I was feeling stuck, just going through the motions, and now I’m motivated, more organized, and taking radical responsibility in my life and business. I highly recommend the BecomeHer program to anyone feeling stuck or not getting what they want, hands down the best investment."
You don't need to arrive with the right answer.
You might be right. It's been asking for your attention for a while.
And you might discover, the way so many women do, that what surfaces through the work is something you hadn't fully named yet. Something the conscious mind had been circling without ever quite landing on.
She walked in with a clear goal.
A revenue number she had been chasing for three years.
Structure.
Clarity.
A plan that would finally make the business take off.
What the work revealed was something she hadn't expected.
She had spent three years building toward a version of success that wasn't hers. A metric she had absorbed from the outside, the pressure of what success was supposed to look like.
And underneath that pressure, she couldn't see what was already true: her life was already successful. She just couldn't feel it.
When that belief released, the external pressure lifted.
The striving quieted.
And the business had room to move in a way it never had before.
The work surfaces what's real.
BecomeHer is the container that holds you while it does.
A 6-week identity upgrade for the female entrepreneur who's ready to address what's actually consuming her capacity, so her business finally has room to receive what she's been building toward.
Most programs scatter your attention across everything at once.
BecomeHer gives you something rare, the space to go deep in the place that matters most right now.
Because depth in the right place creates movement everywhere.
You bring what's been asking for your attention. The work surfaces what's most ready to shift. And over six weeks, the identity underneath it upgrades, so you stop unconsciously capping what you're able to receive and hold.
In your business. In your relationships. In the places you've been reaching toward for longer than you want to admit.
INTRODUCING THE
The work surfaces what's real.
BecomeHer is the container that holds you while it does.
The group isn't just a container for the work. It's part of the work.
The collective energy of women doing identity-level transformation together, each one focused on her own area, each one becoming more of herself, creates something that accelerates what's possible for every woman in it.
There is nothing quite like being in a room where everyone is becoming.
The area is different for every woman.
When spirituality was the area that needed attention:
She had been building a business that looked successful from the outside. But something felt disconnected. Like she was doing all the right things from a place that wasn't quite grounded in what she actually believed.
The work brought her back to herself, to the faith and sense of calling that had started everything. When that reconnected, everything changed. The confidence that had been just out of reach settled into her bones. She booked herself out month after month, not from hustle, but from a groundedness that drew people in.
When finances were the area that needed attention:
She knew the money pattern was there. She could name it. Scarcity. Undercharging. Overdelivering. She had journaled about it, worked on it, tried to think her way past it for years.
The work reached the place the journaling never could. The identity underneath the pattern shifted, who she was in relation to money, to her own value, to what she allowed herself to receive. Within weeks she was signing clients at prices she had never let herself charge before and locking in a significant amount of monthly recurring revenue.
When love and partnership were the area that needed attention:
She didn't come in focused on her business or even on love. She came in thinking it was her health. But as the work began, something deeper surfaced. A longing she hadn't fully named. To feel truly seen, chosen, and worthy of being pursued. The work revealed that was the real thing, and she trusted it enough to go there.
What happened next she didn't see coming. The place she hadn't felt worthy of being chosen had been quietly showing up in her business and in her pricing. When that shifted, she raised her prices with complete ease. Her clients didn't blink at the increase.
When movement and the body were the area that needed attention:
She had been building from her head. Thinking, planning, strategizing, and feeling increasingly disconnected from the work she was doing and the life she was living.
Reconnecting with her body through the work opened something she hadn't been able to access from the neck up. A wholeness. A joy. She began creating offers that lit her up rather than offers she felt she was supposed to make. For the first time, the path to her financial goals felt like something she actually wanted to walk.
"For women who have tried therapy, mindset work, and forcing yourself to just think differently, this allowed me to slow down, get out of my head, and really be present with what was going on under the surface. I was shocked at the speed at which I was able to move through things."
When career and entrepreneurship were the area that needed attention:
She had known for a long time that she wanted to leave. But the fear was debilitating, financial fear, fear of failure, fear of being seen, fear of judgment. She had tried to think her way through it. To logic herself into confidence. It hadn't worked.
The work didn't argue with the fear. It went underneath it, to where the fear actually lived. She came out the other side with 100% confidence in her abilities and her resources. She forgot she had ever been afraid of the financial change in the first place. She left her stable job. She went all in. She didn't look back.
When the definition of success itself was the area that needed attention:
She had been chasing a number for three years. The metric she had absorbed as the measure of whether she had made it. And the chasing had cost her, time with the people she loved most, presence in her own life, the ability to see what was already working.
The work revealed that she had been building toward someone else's version of success , and missing the life she was already living in the process. When that belief released, the striving quieted. The guilt softened. And the business, freed from the weight of proving something, began to move more naturally than it ever had before.
You're done with programs that scatter your attention and never go deep enough to actually move the thing.
You want to feel lighter, freer, more like yourself, and you want your business to reflect that.
You're ready to stop circling the thing and go all the way in.
You want your business to move forward and you sense the path runs somewhere deeper than the business itself.
You've done the therapy, the mindset work, the coaching, and something underneath keeps running.
You're a female entrepreneur who knows something is consuming her capacity, even if she hasn't fully named it yet.
You're looking for a step-by-step business strategy program without inner work.
You want someone to tell you exactly what to do and hand you a formula.
You're not open to the possibility that what's in the way might not be what you think it is.
You’re unwilling to slow down long enough to create lasting change.
You want a quick fix or surface-level motivation.
You're not willing to slow down long enough to let something actually shift.
You're ready to become the woman whose capacity finally matches what she's been building toward.
Week 01 //
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This is where you reconnect with what you actually want, not conceptually, but at the identity level. You orient toward the area that's been asking for your attention. You may arrive knowing exactly what it is. You may discover in this first week that the real thing was waiting just beneath the surface. Either way, the shift begins here. From considering. To owning.
Each week inside BecomeHer follows the BECOME method, a signature journey designed to move you from where you are now to a fully integrated identity upgrade in the area that matters most right now.
Through awareness and embodied experience, insight integrates into the body, self-trust strengthens, and the capacity to receive what you've been reaching for becomes your new baseline.
Week 02 //
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You bring your focus into form. A clear, values-led vision that feels aligned, meaningful, and genuinely possible, not a goal someone else handed you. Yours. As your vision sharpens, your subconscious begins orienting toward it naturally. This is where she starts to feel real.
Each week inside BecomeHer follows the BECOME method, a signature journey designed to move you from where you are now to a fully integrated identity upgrade in the area that matters most right now.
Through awareness and embodied experience, insight integrates into the body, self-trust strengthens, and the capacity to receive what you've been reaching for becomes your new baseline.
Week 03 //
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This is where internal friction releases. The patterns, the fears, the pressure you've been quietly carrying, they begin to loosen. What's been consuming your capacity starts to free up. Space opens. Steadiness returns. Forward movement becomes available in a way it wasn't before.
Each week inside BecomeHer follows the BECOME method, a signature journey designed to move you from where you are now to a fully integrated identity upgrade in the area that matters most right now.
Through awareness and embodied experience, insight integrates into the body, self-trust strengthens, and the capacity to receive what you've been reaching for becomes your new baseline.
Week 04 //
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You integrate the parts of you that have been in tension, the part that's cautious and the part that's ready, the part that knows and the part that doubts. From this place of wholeness, self-trust anchors. Leadership becomes grounded and authentic. Not something you perform. Something you live from.
Each week inside BecomeHer follows the BECOME method, a signature journey designed to move you from where you are now to a fully integrated identity upgrade in the area that matters most right now.
Through awareness and embodied experience, insight integrates into the body, self-trust strengthens, and the capacity to receive what you've been reaching for becomes your new baseline.
Week 05 //
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Action begins to feel different. Cleaner. More natural. You move forward from identity rather than effort, allowing visibility, decisions, and next steps to flow from who you're being, not what you're forcing. This is what it feels like when the business has room to move because the woman behind it does.
Each week inside BecomeHer follows the BECOME method, a signature journey designed to move you from where you are now to a fully integrated identity upgrade in the area that matters most right now.
Through awareness and embodied experience, insight integrates into the body, self-trust strengthens, and the capacity to receive what you've been reaching for becomes your new baseline.
Week 06 //
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The integration point. You anchor the identity you've been stepping into and claim it fully. You don't just have clarity about what's next, you're resourced to lead it as the woman you've become. The one who's finally ready to receive what she's been reaching for.
Each week inside BecomeHer follows the BECOME method, a signature journey designed to move you from where you are now to a fully integrated identity upgrade in the area that matters most right now.
Through awareness and embodied experience, insight integrates into the body, self-trust strengthens, and the capacity to receive what you've been reaching for becomes your new baseline.
Integration Tools and Embodied Practices
Additional resources to reinforce the work and keep you connected to the identity you're becoming, during the program and well beyond it.
Daily Coaching in the Private Community — Monday Through Friday
An intimate group space where coaching happens every day, Monday through Friday. This isn't just peer support, it's a place where you receive real-time guidance, reflection, and support between sessions. A place for breakthroughs that don't wait for Thursdays.
Optional Live Integration + Coaching Hour — Thursdays 1–2 PM CST
An optional live coaching hour follows each embodiment session. A space for integration, reflection, and practical application, connecting what shifted in the session to your real life and business. Supportive, spacious, entirely optional. Also recorded.
Weekly Live Embodiment Sessions — Thursdays 12–1 PM CST
This is where the work moves from understanding into experience. Each session guides you through the BECOME method using subconscious reprogramming designed to create identity-level change at the deepest level. Not talking about transformation. Experiencing it. All sessions are recorded, watch live or on replay, whichever serves you.
Weekly On-Demand Identity Modules — Lifetime Access
Each week begins with a module that introduces the identity shift you're stepping into. These trainings give you the language, the awareness, and the orientation you need, so when you arrive at the live experience, you're already in motion. Lifetime access included, the work doesn't end when the six weeks do.
This is identity work
This isn't talking yourself into confidence.
It's experiencing what it feels like to move from it.
Subconscious Goal Alignment — creating coherence between what you want consciously and what your ready to hold
TIME Techniques and Future Pacing — anchoring your focus as already integrated, so your body knows where it's going
EFT Tapping — supporting emotional regulation and release in real time
Anchoring — stabilizing new internal states so they become your baseline, not a feeling you had once
Guided Hypnosis — reinforcing identity shifts at the subconscious level where lasting change actually occurs
The conscious work has taken you far. And something has still been just out of reach.
That's not a personal failure. That's the ceiling of conscious-level tools.
The patterns running your capacity, the identity beliefs, the deeply held stories, the nervous system responses, don't live at the level of awareness. You can name them perfectly and still live inside them.
BecomeHer works at the level where they actually live.
Throughout the six weeks, you'll move through a curated blend of subconscious and embodiment practices, each one chosen to meet you where you are and move what's been keeping you at the ceiling.
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Yes, it really works!
“I don’t see how I could not recommend this program to other women. It’s the catalyst for all of the positive change in my life, to date. Can you really put a price tag on your overall well being? I was so tired of paying for all the sickness, I wanted to invest in my health and growth mentally, emotionally and spiritually. So, I did!”
"Working through the BecomeHer program with Brittany was truly transformative! The tools and insights provided helped me unlock my full potential and create a deeper connection with my subconscious mind, revealing some shifts deep down I wanted to make for my business and didn't even realize were there. I now feel more aligned with my true self and confident in the steps I’m taking toward business success."
"Before the program, I was feeling inadequate in my personal and work life and now I'm feeling confident in my abilities and have overcome obstacles I was holding in my mind that kept me from living as fully as I am now. I would absolutely recommend the BecomeHer Program to anyone who feels a bit blocked mentally in their ability to achieve a full and happy life."
Questions You Might Be Asking
Most of what you've tried has worked at the level of awareness. You've understood your patterns, named them, journaled about them, and talked about them in coaching sessions. And they've kept running. That's not a failure, that's the ceiling of conscious-level work. BecomeHer works at the subconscious, where identity, safety, and behavior are actually formed. This is the layer that conscious tools have never been able to reach. You won't just understand what's in the way. You'll move it.
That's not a problem, it's where this work often begins. Week 1 is designed to orient you, and the embodiment sessions are built to surface what's most ready to shift. Many women arrive with one answer and discover through the work that the real thing was something they hadn't fully named. You don't need to figure it out before you begin. BecomeHer figures it out with you.
One of the most consistent things heard from women entering this work is: I don't know if this works on someone like me. The skepticism is part of the pattern. Here's what's also true, the work doesn't require you to believe in it. It requires you to show up. The subconscious doesn't need your permission. It just needs your presence.
"I was skeptical and very guarded. Thought this kind of stuff doesn't work on me. But your body and mind will set the pace and guide you right where you need to go, where you will find peace. Even if you go into it wanting one thing to come out."
Yes. This is the core premise of BecomeHer, and every story on this page is proof. The woman who went deep on spirituality booked herself out month after month. The one who focused on finances locked in $68,000 in a single month. The one who addressed love and partnership raised her prices with complete ease. The business moves when the woman behind it has capacity. And capacity is built by addressing what's actually consuming it, wherever that lives.
The Practical Questions
Every single session is recorded, both the live embodiment session and the optional integration hour. Watch live when you can. Watch the replay when you can't. Whatever pace you're moving at is exactly the right pace. There is no falling behind in BecomeHer.
Realistically, plan for 2–3 hours per week. That includes the on-demand identity module, the live embodiment session, and if it calls to you, the optional integration hour. The time investment is intentionally contained. These are designed to be the highest-return hours of your week, not one more thing on an already full plate.
You can't fall behind. Whatever pace you're moving at is what's meant for you. The on-demand modules have lifetime access, they're yours to return to whenever you need them. The live sessions are recorded. And the daily coaching in the community means support is available every day, not just on Thursdays.
That's what the community is for, and it's not just peer support. Coaching is available in the community Monday through Friday. Breakthroughs don't wait for scheduled sessions and neither does the support inside BecomeHer.
There is no money-back guarantee, because this isn't a course you consume and return. It's a container you step into. What is guaranteed: you will be held, coached, and supported every step of the way. The work will meet you wherever you are. And whatever you bring into BecomeHer will get the attention it's been asking for.
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